We LOVE As WE Are

“I love you.”“And how do you love me?”“I love you as you are.” It’s a fallacy really.A lie told to one’s self. To believe that we see someone clearly enough to love them “as they are.” We like to think that we can see people clearly.Our parents, our kids, our lovers, our life partners and friends…. OurContinue reading “We LOVE As WE Are”

What do you want to be when you grow up?

They asked, what do you want to be when you grow up?A doctor, a lawyer? I remember the question.My Dad asked me regularly.What do you want to be when you grow up?I didn’t know then, and I have an idea now. I think a better question would be, WHO do you want to be when youContinue reading “What do you want to be when you grow up?”

A message to women dealing with Imposter Syndrome – Part 2

I felt my worthlessness wash away. I felt my anxieties and insecurities slip into the abyss.  I felt my worry melt off my skin like a bead of sweat on a hot day . And I remembered.  I am lovely.  I am wonderful.  I am awesome.  I am beautiful.  I love me. I truly loveContinue reading “A message to women dealing with Imposter Syndrome – Part 2”

A message to women dealing with Imposter Syndrome – Part 1

You are worthless. You are worth less. You are worth less than a man. Your pussy makes it so. Your voice matters less. Your opinion matters less. You don’t deserve the right to ask for and express your deepest desires and dreams. So keep your mouth shut. Keep your opinions to your self. You areContinue reading “A message to women dealing with Imposter Syndrome – Part 1”

It is your choice my love…

What do I want to give my energy to? What thoughts, what behaviors, what actions do I want to give my energy to? You know we are more nothing than we are something? We are more energy, then we are matter. We are more something we can’t see, then something we can see. And yetContinue reading “It is your choice my love…”

Slay bitch, slay…

I’m a mess. I make mistakes all the time.I judge myself.I feel guilty.I feel like I’m not enough.I feel undeserving. I’m a fucking mess. And…. I’m also a goddess.I’m also a warrior.I’m also a resilient woman that will show up in the worst of times.I’m the one you can count on to show up on theContinue reading “Slay bitch, slay…”

The lies we tell ourselves; the truths we adopt.

“It’ll pass,” he says.  But in the moment it doesn’t feel that way. It feels like I’m going to drown.  Like the resistance in me, is going to suffocate me, and I’m going to be stuck in this loop forever.  These words don’t console me, they condemn me… Reinforcing self doubt, anger, fear…    TheContinue reading “The lies we tell ourselves; the truths we adopt.”

Free Diving

We often think of exploring new places.
New cities, new beaches, new countries.
It’s in our nature.
We send ourselves into outer space, just to see what’s out there?
Are we all alone?
The eternal quest to satisfy our curiosity.